The Danger in Anger by Bridget A. Thomas

Have you ever noticed that by adding the letter D to the front of the word anger, it turns into the word danger? This struck me recently. I think there is something we can learn from that. It might be appropriate to be angry in some instances. However, there are a lot of people walking around with unhealthy anger in their hearts. And this is dangerous territory. Anger can lead to Danger.

You might be familiar with the story of Cain and Abel. We meet the two brothers in Genesis 4. Almost since the time of creation, man has had problems with the spirit of anger. Basically, the two brothers brought very different offerings to the Lord. Cain’s offerings did not please the Lord, while Abel’s did. This caused Cain to become angry.

“Then the Lord said to Cain, ‘Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.’” – Genesis 4:6-7

Well, you likely know the rest of the story. Cain murdered his brother Abel. In the end, Cain “went out from the Lord’s presence” (v. 16).

Anger is still a big problem for many people today. Sometimes we feel anger over small annoyances. It might be more of an irritation. Something under our skin. It can be subtle at first. But it’s still there, nonetheless.

Sometimes we harbor anger inside of us for many years or even decades. After spending so much time with anger, we might be hesitant to let it go. It might feel like an old friend. But the truth is that it is not a friend at all.

Anger can sometimes cause us to burst out inappropriately. Someone might say something completely innocent to us, and we snap at them. It’s not really because of what the person said. It’s because we have been hiding anger in our hearts.

Anger can lead to strife in our relationships. Proverbs 29:22 says that “An angry person stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins.”

I believe that in many cases, the root of our anger comes from the enemy. When we feel unhealthy anger, this is the enemy trying to bring us down. When we are angry at another person, the enemy is working to cause division among us.

In Galatians 5, Paul lists “fits of rage” as one of the acts of the flesh. And he said that “the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit.” So it is obvious that unhealthy anger is not of God.

The Bible contains quite a few verses instructing us not to play around with unhealthy anger:

  • My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. – James 1:19
  • Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger resides in the lap of fools. – Ecclesiastes 7:9
  • Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. – Psalm 37:8
  • A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. – Proverbs 15:1

What should we do if we feel unhealthy anger in our hearts?

God told Cain that “sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.” Cain did not listen to this advice, but we certainly can.

The first step we need to take is to pray about it. We should humbly confess our struggle to the Lord and ask Him to help us overcome it. In the case of Cain, he had a chance to do this, but he didn’t.

We also have to take action. Just as God had instructed Cain, we “must rule over it.” When we feel unhealthy anger boiling inside of us, we have a choice to make. We can remind ourselves that this is coming from the enemy and we must not allow him to have the upper hand.

Repeating one of the Bible verses listed above (James 1:19, Ecclesiastes 7:9, Psalm 37:8, Proverbs 15:1) can help you to feel calmer. There is power in God’s Word! If you can’t remember the Bible verse off the top of your head, then simply saying to yourself, “I will not get angry” can also be a big help in cooling your temper.

If your anger involves another person, you can choose to walk away and come back to discuss the matter at another time.

Anger issues can be overcome, if we take the right steps to work on it. We do not want to risk leaving the Lord’s presence, as Cain did. The good news is that God is always there to help us when we need Him. He wants what is best for us, and will gladly guide us towards healthier feelings.

© 2020 Bridget A. Thomas

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About Bridget A. Thomas

Bridget A. Thomas is the author of numerous books which hit the top of the charts and continue to help many people find true contentment in life. In her spare time, Bridget enjoys reading non-fiction, fiction, and classic literature. She also enjoys crocheting and watching baseball. Bridget and her husband live in Florida, but often travel to the Smoky Mountains in search of black bears and other wildlife. To learn more about Bridget, visit her at bridgetathomas.com.
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16 Responses to The Danger in Anger by Bridget A. Thomas

  1. Perth Girl says:

    Anger is something that we should not let harbour in our hearts because it tends to poison our behaviour and as you said – push us away from His presence.
    Sorting out feelings like this takes time and yes God is right there with us to help us overcome.
    I never thought about the word Anger and adding the D to it making it Danger. They definitely tend to go together in many instances.

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  2. Tabitha says:

    Bridgett,
    I really enjoyed this post. Thank you for sharing. There has been a lot of tension and strife in a few of my family members lately. It doesn’t directly involve me, but it sure does bother me and truthfully even makes me angry at one of them. When somebody messes with your mama, it is hard not to get angry. I think that’s probably a natural reaction. This isn’t the first time this particular situation has occurred. At another time, I realized how angry I was, and had to pray that God would help me to feel differently about this person. I will say, God was faithful in answering. I know he will do it again.

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    • Thank you for commenting! You are right, it can be extra difficult when someone is coming against our loved ones. This usually does cause more anger in many of us. We have an instinct to protect our family. Sometimes praying about this will have to happen many times if the situation continues. But I am so glad to hear that you have already seen in your own life that God can and will help us when we call on Him!

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  3. This is awesome! I’ve honestly never paid any attention to it before now. It makes me wonder how many other words are out there with subliminal messages like this.

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  4. Nancy J. Farrier says:

    Thank you, Bridget. This is such a good reminder. I’d never made the connection of anger and danger. Great food for thought.

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  5. So true, Bridget. I have to remind myself that we wrestle not against flesh and blood. The ugliness of others–the hostility–comes from powers in high places. I don’t want to be controlled by those evil forces, so turning to God in prayer can help rescue me. These days, so many seem angry. I pray for peace.

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    • Yes such a good point! Much of what we deal with comes from the enemy. Keeping that in mind helps us to fight back when strife and anger come up.. keeping our focus on God is vital too. Thanks for commenting!!! … By the way, I don’t know if you saw my latest comment on your post, but apparently there is an issue with comments getting lost and WordPress is looking into it!

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  6. successbmine says:

    Good teaching Bridget. I think that often where there is long standing anger in a person it stems from some kind of abuse or negative circumstances in their past that they have never dealt with. And there is the danger–not dealing with deep-seated wounds and allowing that anger to build until it is often unleashed on some innocent person who perhaps unconsciously reminds the angry person of someone who hurt him in the past. If the anger is deep enough it can lead to very harmful outcomes and it hurts more than just the angry person.

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  7. Faith Okoh says:

    Thank you for this!!

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